a gal i had not seen in 10 years, commented that i look so much older and that was like an ouch moment for me, the last time she did see me i was 26 and now iam almost 34 so go figure, what gets me is people act like others are not suppose to age, why is that?Does physical beauty drastically change between the ages of 20 to 30?
Since you're a female, I think that physical beauty changes between 20 and 30, but it makes drastic changes in that time for this reason: if you don't take care of your body the way you need to (eating right, getting rest, exercise in some capacity). So I take it that between those years, you had a lot of things happen to you that probably got in the way of you taking care of yourself the way you need to. But i'm here to let you know that just because it happened to you then doesn't mean that you should continue to let it happen.
To get it all back, these are some of the Top 5 things I suggest you do:
5) Put effort into your appearance, if only to impress yourself--You would be surprised at how doing ';the little things'; for yourself will help to bring big things to your life! Little things like experimenting with your hair and trying different hairstyles every other week, keeping your nails and feet up to date, or applying the right shade of lipstick will work wonders for you! Trust me, i'm a guy and I KNOW what Nate likes in a woman!
4) Keep a nice tight stomach--If you can't afford to go to the gym on a regular basis (the economy, right?), then what you can do that's cost effective is CRUNCHES! Do 100 crunches everyday for five days a week and i promise you will see the results!
3) Tell yourself that you are beautiful, AND MEAN IT. Even if you are not all the way there--I do that to keep me motivated and when I do that, no one can tell me different.
2) Buy yourself some lingerie and wear it when you're alone. You can make yourself feel pretty--Doing that and standing in front of the mirror will always do wonders for you! Trust me, you will feel so good it'll make you wanna call somebody up to get a taste of what you got!
AND THE NO. 1 THING TO DO IS:
1) GET A MAKEOVER--If you've never had one in your life, the time to get one is right now! When you look good, you feel great!
From my P.O.V. i can tell you that between the ages of 20 and 30, the only thing that changed for me was I have a little more facial now than i did then. Other than that, I get some people who think that i'm a lot younger than what I am. That to me, is a huge blessing! I drink lots of water, I don't smoke, I occasionally drink, I don't do drugs, AND I DON'T HAVE ANY KIDS (OR BABY MAMA DRAMA)! That will always keep you young! Some women say I look like i'm around 19 or 20! GO FIGURE! And, oh yeah, I go to church! That is my fountain of youth right there!
People act like others aren't supposed to age because they've gotten up in age and THEY don't like the way they look because of it. I believe that with age comes wisdom. It can be a beautiful thing if you do the things you need to do and put YOURSELF first!Does physical beauty drastically change between the ages of 20 to 30?
hi you can try this one:
beauty-tips4you.blogspot.com
with videos in how to apply makeup step by step
can't answer how other people are supposed to treat others, however I do have an idea of what happens as women age.
It can be true that your appearance can change very rapidly, 26 to 34. 26 is the mid-to-late peak phase for a female, often when she capable of marrying the most man for her relative appearance, vitality, etc. (outside of appearance career limitations and education debt tend to screw women that age over a little in practice. 34, simply isn't much to be excited about, instead of being a fresh young woman, typically I get the impression of a nonetheless younger mom who has started to lose her edge. She can't compete any longer with the twenty somethings. Fitzgerald wrote a short-story of the infatuated young man who let the 'right one' get away and returns when they are both middle age to see her married. He realizes the true temporariness of her attractiveness and inability to leave an unhappy marriage, and his desire lost on someone who no longer exists.
That's really why beauty based on a physical standard is so fickle. The 20's really can ruin a woman so to speak. Personally, I feel most men, including myself would be ashamed to reveal the ages of females they know who they have fantasized about. When I said 26 is mid/late peak for a woman, you have to realize most guys would like to buy into a girl who is a few years Before her peak.
You really should not let a friend, particularly a FEMALE friend influence your opinions about your self worth. Unless you are not straight, a guy's opinion is all you need to worry about, and that is simplified immensely when that only man you want to care about is also your husband- hopefully that is not a let down.
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