Whos more shallow guys that look for beauty more than anything else or women who look 4 financial Independence?

in a man more than anything else ?Whos more shallow guys that look for beauty more than anything else or women who look 4 financial Independence?
Are you really saying ';financial INDEPENDENCE'; or are you saying ';financially WELL OFF';?





The former is not so bad; because men who are not INDEPENDENT usually are USERS. By definition, it means they spend their lives with someone else supporting them. I can understand why many women would wish to avoid that. Heck, I avoid the lack of financial independence in women, too!





Now, if you mean ';well-off';, then that would be, indeed, more shallow than the man seeking physical beauty. After all, at least there's a certain honesty in that, while the woman who looks for money from a man is usually just a glorified prostitute.





Besides... a woman who looks for money from a man is not exactly ';independent';, now, is she? So the reasons to avoid such a woman would be similar to why a woman would avoid a man who is not independent, thus seeking to be supported by a woman.








At any rate, I find a parallel between men who see a woman as little more than a pair of big boobs and a woman who always wants a tall man... both equally as shallow! LOL!Whos more shallow guys that look for beauty more than anything else or women who look 4 financial Independence?
I'd say people who look at financial independence in others are worst. If someone likes you because they genuinely find you physically attractive, that may be shallow but it is a good reflection on you. But if someone's motive is financial, that says nothing about you as a person, only how fat your wallet is.





And just to prove my point, why is it that I have only seen one women (on a talk show) who admitted to her ';beloved'; that she was looking for money?





Furthermore, when these same women looking for big bucks have sons, what do you think their reaction is when other women like they are want to get their mitts around their not-so-handsome but loaded sons? Or when some young gorgeous women wants to marry their old but megarich fathers?
the woman because as soon as they got all the money they want they will leave but for guys it depends who is a beauty me for example i like girls shorter then me, why ? because they just look so cute and sweet(not all of them) but my friend just cant stand shorter woman for him its just a turn off. so... yea woman who want money more then anything will lead to divorce no matter what. but for the guy who don't want to leave their beauty the marriage/relationship will work out.
Well, the guy would be shallow and the woman would be selfish. They're a bit different. I think the woman is more dangerous, because the guy will likely get his sex and find another sexy girl, but the woman is on the prowl and out for the kill... I'd just hate to see the poor guy who had to deal with her for the rest of his life.
I think both, but in some situations more so the beauty wuld be worse. Now if the woman jsut wants nice outfits and **** then hell she's as bad as the guy only in it for looks. But if she has children and needs help, i guess it wouldn't be so bad. But guys only looking for beauty is always bad.
oh come on don't tell me that women don't judge by looks.